I feel like its missing a big one (credit goes to my toxic PhD advisor):
When someone works hard to achieve something give credit to someone not even involved and reward them, then criticise the person that worked hard for not working hard enough. Even better if you frame it as "If you worked harder you could be like <person not even involved>"
I feel like its missing a big one (credit goes to my toxic PhD advisor):
When someone works hard to achieve something give credit to someone not even involved and reward them, then criticise the person that worked hard for not working hard enough. Even better if you frame it as "If you worked harder you could be like <person not even involved>"